Update: We know (hardly) nothing. *sigh*

First of all? Thank you all, ALL of you, for the amazing, kind, wonderful emails and tweets and comments that you left about this. It really, really helped.  And now, my stream-of-consciousness-update.  I apologize in advance for the babbling. Bullet style.

  • It took forever to get into the city yesterday for the ultrasound appointment, and then the GYN. When we finally arrived at 2:20 for our 1:30pm appointment at the ultrasound place, we were told that her appointment was actually at 3pm. Which made no sense, because her appointment with the GYN was at 3pm, and the GYN made this ultrasound appointment for us. Whatever. I left like 3 messages with “Jeannie” the receptionist but apparently she’s not fit to do her job because she didn’t bother to call me back and reassure us that we’d still have our appointment.
  • The ultrasound was clear!
  • Off we went to the GYN, where I waited in the waiting room for over an hour while she was in with the doctor, jumping everytime a nurse or a patient came through the door because I was waiting for her to come out. Luckily I had some awesome tweets and emails coming my way, which made it a lot easier to take. I also read the latest issue of Time cover to cover, which I have never done, so I’m feeling very up to date on current events. I feel smartish. I might subscribe.
  • Ok, the subscription was $20 but I did it anyway because I sort of liked feeling smartish. And I’m terrible about watching the news, so this might help me a bit. We’ll see if I cancel.
  • She finally got out of the appointment, and it turns out they couldn’t get the sample for the biopsy. The doctor stopped because after three numbing shots and Mom taking her pain medication, she was still in agony and she couldn’t “torture” her anymore.  It makes me sick to think of how much that procedure hurts normally, times about a hundred because of the severity of her illness*.
  • So, we are going back at the end of November. To do it again. I feel horrible, because she has to go through the entire ordeal again, PLUS all the waiting time. The doctor did say that she was fairly confident everything is fine, but that she wanted to be absolutely sure considering my mother’s symptoms.
  • Next, we go deal with a patch of skin cancer on her leg. Or, what is almost definitely skin cancer, her doctor said.  When it rains it pours, right?

* I won’t name the illness here because I don’t want her to find this blog.  I’m paranoid about it. Very. very. very. paranoid.

16 Responses to Update: We know (hardly) nothing. *sigh*
  1. Lu ~ @masmom
    September 23, 2009 | 10:55 AM

    So sorry for your mom and you having to go through all this. Much love,hugs,and healing thoughts your way. Hang in there.
    Lu ~ @masmom´s last blog ..Follow Friday Lonesome Dove Edition

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @Lu ~ @masmom, thanks babe. I know you guys aren’t having an easy time of it right now either – hugs and love RIGHT BACK ATCHA.

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  2. Danielle-Lee
    September 23, 2009 | 10:57 AM

    I’m so sorry! The wait is as frustrating and agonizing as the outcome. I definitely feel your pain, honey, and your mom’s. Well, I’ve never had a biopsy, but I’ve had lots of fun scrapings in the girly-bits, and then WAITING for the results?! omg, I was a hot mess.
    Anyway, I hope that the days go by quickly and with very little pain. xoxo
    Danielle-Lee´s last blog ..The Blathering

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @Danielle-Lee, yeah the scrapings? ::shudder:: she has a chronic pain condition on top of it all, so it’s even worse :( But she’s hanging in there. So strong. I truly admire her.

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  3. Kel
    September 23, 2009 | 1:48 PM

    I’m so sorry about what is going on…my thoughts are with you and your mom.
    ~K

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @Kel, thank you, babe.

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  4. Why Mom Drinks Rum
    September 23, 2009 | 3:27 PM

    Glad her scans seems to be clear – yay! Hope things go smoother for her next time (HUGS TO YOU!)
    Why Mom Drinks Rum´s last blog ..One Week

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @Why Mom Drinks Rum, sadly not much chance of that, but at least the doctors are treating her kindly.

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  5. becky
    September 23, 2009 | 4:45 PM

    just wanna say again that y’all are on my mind. ((HUGS))
    becky´s last blog ..Friends

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @becky, you’re sweet. I can hardly believe this was just last week. Feels like it’s been eons of stress since then! oy!

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  6. dysfunctional mom
    September 24, 2009 | 3:37 AM

    So…so far so good? No news is good news? And stuff?
    Hope it continues to be good news. xoxo
    dysfunctional mom´s last blog ..I’m all over the place on this one….

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @dysfunctional mom, me too.

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  7. Kelly
    September 24, 2009 | 4:02 PM

    My guess is if the GYN was that concerned, they would have kept torturing her to get the sample, so that’s a good sign. Glad you’re hanging in there.
    And isn’t it… funny? pathetic? something? that we’re completely grown women but panic at the thought of our mothers finding our blogs???

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  8. Susan (woo222)
    September 28, 2009 | 12:43 AM

    My lord, your mother’s story sounds very similar to what my mother went through in the last two years. Keep us posted. I send you and your mother all my love and hope. Never lose hope, NEVER. It is easy to do amidst the worry and sleeplessness. She is your precious mother, I know. I recently had a conversation with my mother about how many more years I might be lucky enough to get with her…it is not always easy. I wish you and your mother a much easier road. :) Much love, S
    Susan (woo222)´s last blog ..Jenny

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    MommyGeek Reply:

    @Susan (woo222), thanks for your kind words. It’s so difficult to face our parents’ mortality.

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  9. Al_Pal
    September 29, 2009 | 11:47 PM

    Oh, geebs. How tough. Sending comforting thoughts.

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