Anyways, I definitely think kids need boundaries. But you are right that they also need consistency. If you like time-outs, use it every time she misbehaves.

As far as your mother goes, good luck! I have no idea how to help you with that one.
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And THAT being said, if you ever feel the need to tell me to pipe down, just say the word. Love you, lady.
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Lately I’ve been trying something new, and when it’s not a violent act, instead of putting *her* in a time out, I tell her that one of her toys will be in time out for the rest of the day, or a few hours, or whatever. It seems to be working? I think. Time will tell, I suppose, whether it ultimately has been effective. Here’s hoping, though….

Thank you for reminding me — ultimately I AM responsible – with Hubby – for how they turn out. So you’re right; it’s my call, I need to stand up for it. I’m totally using that line next time my mother gives me shit, by the way.

And I know it sounds stupid, but for some reason, I never considered just calling her back in a little while when it was over.

That’s a good point about being angry, I’ll have to remember to make my next angry moment into a teaching opportunity. I’ve been getting angry too much lately, and we’re trying to find a better way to deal with our frustration with her, and recognize that when it becomes a vicious cycle, we’re doing something wrong.

I always thought that standing there and keeping her in the corner would somehow undermine the whole purpose – maybe give her too much attention? How has it worked for you?